But it was also partially about me. During my teens and early 20s, I was vehemently against dating Asian guys. When friends tried to pair me up with the one Chinese guy in elementary school, as if we were meant to be because I was the only Chinese girl, I quickly became annoyed. I scoffed and walked away, irritated at the unspoken expectation that I should to stick to my own race. Now, I can see that I was surrounded by many, many problematic messages about the desirability of Asian men or lack thereof , which in turn led me to believe that they were socially awkward, passive, unattractive—and therefore not dateable.
Diverse images of desirability do, in fact, have the power to provoke a fundamental change in the way others think; and not just about desiring and dating Asian men and black women. Hi Patrice. You look so badass in your pictures. That's the first thing my boyfriend Tian Jun ever said to me. The year was The place: my Tinder inbox. His bio matched the charm and wit of his message and his photos suggested he had good looks, an eclectic social life, and a dope job that required creativity, grit, and ambition.
I am a 21 year Proud Latina, Nicaraguan to be exact and my preference is Asian men. Us Latinas love Asian men for many reasons. Some of the reasons are because of their culture, their music, To their food etc. I can't stand people who just fetishize them.
Send In Your Pictures Here. This site is currently dedicated to relationships between Asian men all women, including white, black, latina, and asian women. Asian Men Forums Asian Men Stories As Asian men become more prominent in the western world, Asian men are starting to be seen as role models and sexual symbols in the West. Many Asian men are starting to break the old stereotype, and are positioning themselves in ways never seen before. It is the goal of this site to identify those Asian men, and see what are they doing to succeed in the Western world.